Friendship as we know it is defined by a bond of sympathy and affection between two people, which is not based on sexual attraction or on kinship. Ok, so far it fastoche, but how not to confuse friendly relationship and love when we get on well with a boy? Is it possible to be in perfect harmony with a boy without being a couple?
Confusion is often there, but just answer a few questions to see if your friend is really your friend, or if you would like to secretly go further than that you.
1.There is no physical attraction
Needless to stress: from the moment we want to embrace the person with whom we form the duo, there is attraction. Between a girl and a boy, there may be tenderness, affection, hugs as we would a good friend. But if the pleasure of being in his arms to show on our face (to understand the silly grin!), Then no, it’s not just a friend.
2. Jealousy to see the other couple does not exist
“I wanted to tell you, I think I’m in love with her” … If you feel the joy for him, so it’s a friend. He jumps into his arms telling him how lucky he is to be in love, he was asked to present us with this girl who obviously will be part of his life.
If jealousy comes over us, and that thoughts like “why he is in love with her and not me? What it has over me? “. While it may be more than a friend to us, but no one was ever realized until he loves another.
3. It happens to him talk about everything
Since there is no discomfort us, we come to talk to him about everything that concerns us: our family problems, our loves, we love the boys well and even asked us to arrange a coup if known. We remade the world after all! As with a girlfriend. If You feel there are things we would like to keep secret, or that it would be difficult to speak for fear of being judged.
4. We can recognize the faults of the other
“My best friend is great, but what it is painful when it’s whims! “. The advantage of this friendship is that we love people despite their faults, and we get to support them. In love, it is more difficult in the long term. It is not blinded by love and you realize quite easily weaknesses of the other. Which fully accepts, and that does not deny block in him looking for excuses as in love
While it is true that define this relationship is very difficult, it’s still a beautiful thing to be friends with a boy. It can be learned things about the opposite sex, the feelings, the thinking etc … The friendship talks, and do not miss it, because once we laid down the rules and that it is, it is only happiness!
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