words can hurt...

“Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.”

Reminds me of a lot of things that happened lately. Words being said, which can hurt like hell and make one feel damn worthless. Anyway, i know, we can all speak and we use words. Anyway, what we seem to NOT notice is how and which words we use towards others. Sound stupid, doesn't it? Not really though, think about it for a second. When we are happy, we use nice words, almost like honey dripping from a comb. Now, when we are pissed, we can fetch words from foul language for that matter and those are the words, that causes little cracks, a saddened heart and sometimes bad break-ups. We don't want that, do we? But, unless we start thinking for ourselves and not use words that can hurt in anger, nothing will ever be or stay the same. It's not easy, i admit that, as i can be extremely feisty when my butt catches fire, so to speak. Words can cut your heart like a knife, i am not kidding. I always say, rather try and hit me, that i can take, but words always hurt so much more and that is one hurt that almost never go away. Don't insult people, don't swear at them and don't tell them they are stupid or idiots. That is honestly so rude. If one deserve to be spoken like that to, sure, by all means, knock yourself out. But undeserving hurtful words, just because you have a big ego of yourself, so not nice at all. Always choose your words carefully in any given situation, but be honest as well. No use saying things you don't mean, i know that can hurt even more. So be nice people, its not that damn freaking hard.

NOTE TO MYSELF: Always think of others feelings before saying anything. Think of the reaction and what problems it can cause. IF YOU CANNOT SAY SOMETHING NICE, RATHER DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL.